The Greatest Sorrow in Life is the Emptiness of the Soul

I don’t know if you have ever had such an experience. You have encountered some happy things in your life. You can’t help sharing it with people around you, but find that few people are really happy because of your happiness. Therefore, your mood should be shared with those who understand you. People who know you can understand all the hardships in your life and understand your difficulties. He will listen to your sharing patiently, happy what you like, and worry about what you worry about. I heard a passage saying: "Life is so short, why should people who don't care about you affect your mood? Sincerity is so precious, why let people who don't know how to cherish consume your feelings." Sometimes, the reason why we are stuck in a relationship and refuse to let go is because we are waiting for a reason to let ourselves completely give up, waiting for the disappointment in our heart to accumulate little by little, and finally turn into despair. A writer once said: No m...

I used to think that my ordinary life stems from the pressure of survival, from this impetuous society that cannot give people a sense of stability, so I forgave myself for being inactive and forgiving myself for repeating my daily life. No one can awaken our dreams of life, but we can only try to change ourselves. Try to make a cup of hand-ground coffee, play some music, read a good book, and enjoy a peaceful and beautiful time in the weekend afternoon. Try to plan a small holiday trip-go to the beach to bask in the sun and blow the sea breeze. The dream life is always ahead. What we need is to keep discovering ourselves and let ourselves see bit by bit changes. This is the way to approach our dreams.

A scientist once did an experiment, looking for investigators of different ages, asking them to write down the things that are most worried about now, and then follow up the investigation three weeks later. It turned out that 90% of the troubles did not happen at all. After three more weeks, most of the remaining 10% disappeared. This survey proves that most of the worrying things in life never actually happened. Many troubles are actually self-inflicted. During the journey of life, you must learn to let go, naturally, there will be a lot less troubles. If you feel that God is unfair to you, learn to be content. People nowadays live in a world full of material desires, and their worries and depressions are deepening, and desires and unwillingness to be entangled at all times. Because their hearts are dissatisfied, can't let go, want too much, and never know enough, they often feel too tired to live, and there is nowhere to put a heart. You should be thankful that in this life you a...

First, have an independent personality. It is necessary to have the ability to settle down no matter what kind of difficulties you are in. It gives you the ability to clean up the mess. It also ensures that you don't have to lose your dignity due to difficulties when your relationship collapses, so that your body and mind can have a place to live. Your happiness, after all, has to depend on your own to come at ease. Second, maintain self-discipline. Not everyone is willing to explore your heart through your sloppy appearance. Behind all the beauty and exquisiteness you see, there is strict self-discipline. From today on, less indulgence, more self-discipline: go to bed early and get up early, control your diet, exercise regularly, and maintain a clean and generous image. The beginning of aging is not at a certain age, but no longer fighting with fate. Third, maintain emotional stability. In life, everyone will have unsatisfactory moments. Days are good or bad, so you might as well ...

I know a good friend who can see how many books a person has read. He said that all the books people read have written on their faces. People who read less often have a narrow and blind face, which is a manifestation of mental hunger. Because reading can make people understand right and wrong and be reasonable, the more they read, the less likely they are to get trapped mentally, and the more gentle and comfortable their faces are. Of course, people do not read to be good-looking, nor are they just to become rich. Some people say that when we read a good book for the first time, we feel as if we have found a friend; when we read this good book again, it seems to be reunited with an old friend. Some people say that reading will make you feel confident but not too stubborn. It allows you to see the world in the eyes of others and also allows you to know yourself clearly. Although everyone says that reading is good, not everyone can really calm down and read seriously. Many people just se...

Everything in the world is for meeting, just like cold meets warm, with rain; winter meets spring, with years; men meets women, with life. The encounter between people is really a wonderful chemical reaction. Everyone you meet in your life is by no means accidental. The "Law of Attraction" in psychology says that what kind of person you are will attract what kind of people. Flying with a phoenix must be a handsome bird; walking with a tiger and wolf, it must be a beast! A person's personality, hobbies, quality of life, and goal direction can be seen at a glance by looking at the 5 nearest people around him. Someone said: "Everyone is a semicircle, and in this vast world, there will eventually be another semicircle that fits closely with you, just to make a perfect circle." What kind of person you will be with. If you want to be with good people, first of all you have to cultivate yourself. Only when you have cultivated well will someone else come to you. Only wh...

I don’t know if you often feel that life is full of regrets and not perfect: The house is too small to live in. The personality of a colleague in the office is so strange that it affects his mood at work. Why doesn't the salary increase when working overtime every day? ... Once there is one aspect of life that is not perfect, I keep staring at it and fall into endless entanglement. Everyone wants to strive for a complete life. However, since ancient times and nowadays, a 100% complete life has not been possible. Incompleteness is life. A writer wrote: Everyone has defects, just like an apple bitten by God. Some people have more defects because God likes his fragrance. Only by lowering your expectations of yourself and not criticizing yourself can you feel the interest of life more. We must also learn to lower our expectations of others and not to demand others. It is a manifestation of a person's maturity. But in life, there are many unsatisfactory things that you cannot contro...

I don’t know if you also have such a moment: it is difficult to complete a difficult task, but there are omissions in the small details, because of this mistake, all your efforts are wasted. Finally write an article, but at the end of it, you suddenly encounter a power outage or computer crash, so all the results of your whole day's labor are in vain. It's hard to spare a vacation time and get ready to relax for a few days, but the sudden emergency destroys the travel plan you made a long time ago... When you grow up, you will find that the difficulty of life is not to fail at the beginning, but to test your patience time and time again on seemingly small things. As there is a saying, "It is often not the distant mountains that make people tired, but a grain of sand on the sole." Every day of our lives, we may encounter such bad things. They seem trivial, but they often make us feel depressed. When we are not patient enough to face all kinds of difficulties in life, w...

Now, close your eyes and imagine that in 2058, you will be in your seventies or eighties. Sitting in an empty room, you are old-fashioned, you have no money and power, and you cannot take care of yourself.  You have made a wish to God. Say: Please, make me young again! God says: OK So you open your eyes and go back to today in 2020. How do you plan to live this time?

How did you get through the bottom of your life? I saw a very interesting answer on the Internet: "Take a few more steps." Yes, try to take a few more steps to get past the trough. Hope these 3 things can help you. The first thing is to accept yourself and adjust your mentality. In fact, the trough is not terrible. What's terrible is that you are depressed, pessimistic and negative, and lose the courage to believe in yourself. Rather than being pessimistic, it is better to hone your mind, exercise yourself, and improve your abilities. There was a friend who suffers from cancer, but still faces life positively. He said: Death is only a result, how to live is the most important thing. Anyway, if you are happy or unhappy, you will live a day, so live it out! Yes, there is only once in life, and living well is the most important thing. If you can't change the situation, then accept yourself, adjust your mentality, stay positive and optimistic, and believe that you have no...

A psychologist did an experiment in a publishing house: let each editor plan the most influential topic. The editor who is studying for a second degree chooses the topic "How to write a graduation thesis"; the editor who is going to send his children to kindergarten chooses the topic "Preschool Children's Education Series"; an editor in marital difficulties, the topic is " Out of the marriage dilemma"... It is not difficult to see from this experiment: everyone loves to think from their own standpoint. But in the vast world, everyone has their own unique attributes. Many people don't see the difference and are used to projecting their likes and dislikes onto others. But many times, you don't understand the happiness of others, and you may not understand the difficulties of others. So, don't pretend to be arrogant to others, and don't think that other people's deep living is unfortunate just because you are obsessed with bustling. So...

I saw a video recently. A man was driving home at night when he saw a young couple riding an electric bicycle passing by outside the car window. It was very windy at night, and the girl sat on the back seat, hugging the waist of the boy in front. Watching this scene, the man driving the car casually took a photo, and the accompanying text wrote: "I envy this kind of love." For many young people in their infancy, this is actually just an ordinary scene in ordinary life. It can arouse the envy of others. The reason may only be that the "he" on the electric bicycle has exactly what What the "him" in the car doesn't have. If you change the angle, in the eyes of this couple, why not envy that man? Owning a favorite car, driving to and from get off work every day, no need to worry about the wind and rain, maybe it is their biggest wish now. You see, people are sometimes so strange, and we always envy others involuntarily. Envy the success of others, envy the...

There is a saying: "The way up is never comfortable." A person may be tired and hard to work hard and struggle every day, but at least he will gradually see his progress. And once you stop and seem to be standing still, you will only move back. Between advance and retreat, sometimes there is no intermediate option. There are many friends who lose weight around me, and almost all have encountered the same problem. Some people want to lose weight by controlling their diet, but they will not lose weight immediately after taking one bite less, and the next day they will feel as if they have gained weight again after taking one bite more. For many people who are not determined, it is easier to let themselves go after repeated setbacks. Only a few people persisted, demanding and managing themselves strictly every day. In fact, it is not difficult to have a healthy body state, because anyone can start exercising immediately; but it is not an easy task, because you must persevere bef...

In this life of ours, we will inevitably fall into confusion, there will be times of hesitation, standing at the crossroads and looking around, not knowing where to go. This is normal, even the great writer Balzac once complained like this: I need to rest to rejuvenate my brain. Traveling can give me a rest. But to be able to travel, I must have money. In order to earn money, I must work... I am caught in a vicious circle. It is impossible to escape from the clutches. Life will make things difficult for everyone, but some people can get out quickly, and some people will always struggle in the whirlpool. If you are in confusion at this moment, you might as well listen to the next few words, think about them, and they may make your eyes shine. 1. What is difficult to do and what should be done are often the same thing. If you feel that the road you are currently taking is very difficult and you are considering whether to give up, I suggest you not make a decision in a hurry. First think ...

I don't know when it started, people always do things with a strong purpose. To read a book, one must read for more than an hour to count; to cook, one must make delicious dishes to be considered successful; communication must contribute to the expansion of contacts and resources to make sense. This kind of life, at first glance, it seems that every minute and every second is spent on a point; but a closer look shows that it is precisely these patterned lives that unknowingly solidify people’s thinking. Reading, is it time to read? Naturally not. When reading a book, what really enjoys is the collision of different thinking, the thinking about the article. The pleasure of reading is not determined by time. Similarly, the joy of cooking lies in the process of processing and cooking ingredients. Even if the finished product is unsatisfactory, the pleasure it brings can not be surpassed. Life seems to depend on "useful" things to make sense; but it is the so-called "use...

Many people have encountered such a moment. When you are experiencing unbearable pain and torture, you can't help but want to talk to others, hoping for encouragement and comfort. But the joys and sorrows between people are not connected. No one has experienced your things, no one really understands your frustration and ups and downs; no one has experienced your feelings, no one can feel your emotions. Most of the time, the comfort you want will only be exchanged for a feeble courtesy. The grievance you endure is only a story in the eyes of others. A writer once said: "Each of us is lonely in the world, so we can only walk alone. Although our bodies are dependent on each other, we are not together. We neither know other people nor be understood by others." Everyone has unknown coldness and misery, not everyone can feel it in the same way. Even people who are close cannot fully appreciate your suffering and endure it for you. Life is like drinking water, only you know how ...

6. Believe you can do the next step It takes courage to do many things. Sometimes the goal is big, but you have to believe that you are ready to take the next step, even if this step is very small. Only when you begin to believe that you can do the next step can you seize the opportunity and meet the challenge. 7. Cheer for the victory of others Begin to notice what you like what others do and tell them. Appreciate the people around you, this will bring you a better relationship and also bring yourself a sense of psychological identity. Therefore, be proud of those who are making progress, cheer for their victory, and sincerely wish them. When you are happy about the people and things you admire, you actually tune yourself to the same frequency with them, and in the end, you will gradually gain praise and blessings from others. 8. In times of difficulty, you have the freedom to choose your own attitude When encountering difficulties, you will feel frustrated and sad, which is normal. A...

1. Start spending time with the right people What is the right person? The right one, they love you and appreciate you, and encourage you to improve yourself in a healthy and positive way. They are the person who make you more positive. They not only embrace your current identity, but also unconditionally embrace and support the person you really want to be. 2. Start to face the problem What defines you is not your problems, but how you react to them and draw wisdom from them. Unless you take actions, the problem will not go away. Do your best, do everything you can. The problem may be difficult, but as long as you move in the right direction step by step, you will find that things are difficult but not so terrible. 3. Put your own happiness first Your own needs are important. If you do not pay attention to your own needs, in the long run, you are actually suppressing your desires. Remember, it is possible to take care of your own needs while also taking care of the needs of those arou...

Half of our troubles stem from comparison, and half stem from desire. Both comparison and desire subconsciously inspire us to be competitive and not to be outdone. The life was as calm as water. Competing for power can lead to exhaustion, physical and mental fatigue, and even bruises. In this world, there are some things that cannot be disputed; some things do not need to be disputed. Why bother with impossible people and things? Why bother about people and things that are not worth having? In the simple and pure time, live quietly and be your true and happy self. Just let go of things you don’t understand, don’t be clinging to things; let go of things you can’t get, don’t be stubborn. Feeling happy in life is not because you have more, but because you want less. Happiness actually depends on the state of mind. Just as facing half a glass of water, a pessimistic person will lament: "There is only half a glass of water!" An optimistic person will rejoice: "Fortunately, th...

Time is a classic book, which contains all the flavors of life, and records the vicissitudes of the world, with all the ups and downs. The stories in the book, the center of the story, some have passed away with the wind, some are burned in the heart, burned in the sparkling tears, burned in the hard days and hard work and strong. A person's journey is just a fateful arrangement, which cannot be changed without authorization, whether it is wonderful or plain, it is the same end. When I am old, remembering the right and wrong of the past is nothing more than a calm smile. I want to be a person of little fame and fortune, lower my eyebrows for my beloved man, wait for the gray hair, look aging, still holding the hand I want to hold, watching the last prosperity together, and heading towards the end of life together. I want to be a person who is at ease, just like a plant that grows silently in the mountains and rivers over the years, either prosperous or withered in the mountains and...

A poet said: 　　"The wind is knotting its leaves, 　　The grass is bearing its seeds, 　　 We stood silently, 　　 is very beautiful. " This little poem tells the best looks between people: getting along well, being silent is also warm. If the heart knows each other, speechlessness is also a tacit understanding. The older I get, the more I feel that it’s better to stay quietly with a confidant than to chat with others. You guys are in a tacit understanding. You know what the other person is thinking with just one look. You don't need to rack your brains to find topics and think about what to say to make the atmosphere less embarrassing. A true friend does not demean what you are proud of, does not stop what you really like, and does not attack what you are born with. Even the occasional silence is just right. You know what I want to say. I know what you mean. It’s comfortable to get along, but it’s also warm without words.

Has always felt that for the love that makes us smile and tear, most of our first half of life is spent waiting and searching. For example, waiting for fate, looking for love. The latter half of his life is used for management and protection. For example, managing marriages and protecting families. However, years have told us that marriage is not easy, and true love is rare. Not all waiting and searching can result in cause and effect. The relationship between love and non-love is sometimes like the weather in February and August, with uncertainty. You don't know when you started to have a hard time, and you have nothing to say. There is always no shortage of stories encountered, but people who know how to cherish love. In the world of love, there is never a lack of old-fashioned alliances, but people who will never leave you when you are in trouble. But love tells us that it’s easy to fall in love with each other. Because not all operations and protection can be accompanied to the...

Living in the burgeoning world, there are always many things that are destined to be impossible to escape. There is loneliness hidden everywhere, and the noise is released everywhere. Sometimes loneliness is also a kind of beauty. Sit quietly, boil a pot of old wine, forget the turmoil, and live a peaceful and quiet feeling. Slow down the pace of walking, quietly put away the irritability, so that the soul is free from fetters, and all unpleasant pasts are put aside. Life is picturesque, and the light and shadow pass the gullies of the years, leaving a breeze and warmth. In the landscape of the year, thousands of sails were exhausted, and finally learned to settle an impetuous heart, stepped through the ups and downs, let the heart cling to his own mountains and rivers, not to be surprised. Regarding some passing life scenery, no matter how nostalgic, we are still slowly learning to let go, because there are more beautiful scenery ahead. Don't stay in your steps easily, if you are ...

One can endure any kind of life if he knows why he lives. In fact, people are the same as trees, half flying in the wind, half in the rooted soil, half falling in the shade, and half bathing in the sun. No matter how heavy the wind and rain outside, the heart remains unharmed. The world is as big as the heart is. To be a magnanimous and selfless person, you must not only be able to afford it, but also let it go. Life is practiced in pain and joy, and warmth is conveyed in love. A strong person is unwilling to be left behind, dissatisfied with the status quo, for his own shortcomings, constantly improving himself in the tireless exploration, breaking the cocoon in the process of transformation. Every flower has her unique life, which brings us a different splendor. In fact, everyone is a unique flower, scented in obscurity, looking for a peaceful and pure land, blooming in the most beautiful posture , Don’t ask for appreciation, don’t ask for perfection, just for this life, to be able t...

The road of life has to be taken with your heart. All your unsatisfactory, and unhappiness are all about thinking too much and never letting yourself go. Without wisdom, you can't let others in your heart, without compassion, you can't let yourself in your heart. The wise man puts down the present and advances, and the fool puts it down as despair. Letting go is a kind of relief, a kind of epiphany, letting go is a choice of mentality and the wisdom of life. If you learn to let go, stress, troubles, enemies, pain, etc. will be greatly reduced. If the heart is simple, the world will be simple, and happiness will grow; if the heart is free, life will be free, and happiness is everywhere. Walking through the roads of the years, we can clearly see the cycle of cold and summer, the cycle of the four seasons, each season has a beautiful scenery, and each life is a unique existence. The road of life is the road in the heart.

  The journey of life is a journey through mountains and rivers. What is missed is the scenery, and what is left is the memory. The ups and downs of life will eventually become ordinary, and we are slowly getting old. The passing years are always inevitable. Looking back on youth has faded away, life has been stamped with time regardless of sorrows and joys. In the station of time, although we are full of wind and dust, we are more truthful and calm. Time is getting old, in fact, there is nothing wrong. The wrinkles around the eyes freeze the moments of beauty and happiness. In the mottled light and shadow, we don’t need to sigh. Every day is a new beginning, and every moment is worth it. Cherish, and the sun outside the window is still warm.  Yishu once said: "When I was forty years old, I was healthy, I had some savings, my husband was considerate, my children were obedient, and I had a job that I really liked. This is success. You don't have to be famous or make a fortune....

  In life, no matter what you encounter, you must give yourself a smile, learn to have a calm; give yourself a smile, make yourself more open-minded There are always ups and downs, confusion and hardships in the road of life. A long road, pessimism and disappointment will make the road bleak and make life worse and worse. Give yourself a smile is a kind of self-mediation for your mood Live alone, walk smartly. Learn to let go of that little self-obsession, let the mood go on the road with sunshine and smile. Give life a smile, and encourage yourself to soar wings and fly in the sky Decades of time are not long, but not short. In life, there are always many difficult and bumpy roads. No matter how many troubles haunt my mind? How much sleepiness entangles the whole body? You must give yourself reasons for happiness and self-confidence, and cross the gullies of life with confidence.

  I sigh about life because I have never had a vigorous feat. I feel insignificant and mediocre. It seems that life is too simple, and it makes people feel irritable. I haven’t spoken out about the future without embarrassment. I just grasped the present more realistically. I think this is a road, a journey that everyone must take. Someone once said: The process of growth is long but substantial, and the process of self-destruction is short. But it leaves a lifetime of pain. Life can be said to be a test. It depends on ourselves.

  The flowers bloom and fall, and spring comes and winter comes again. Life goes round and round like this, with twists and turns, our lives and our hearts continue to grow in this process. We choose life, and life is also choosing us. Whether we are lucky or ups and downs, it is a gift from life, and it provides us with tangible and intangible nourishment to our lives. When we look back, we used to follow our inner voice, love our lives with all our heart, and strive to pursue our lives sincerely. Our lives will never be regrettable.

  What time can do is not just to make you forget a person or something. Time can also prove, prove your growth, prove that all your loneliness is to break the cocoon and become a butterfly, prove that your effort and youth waiting is not in vain.  A single person is like a butterfly. Before it breaks its cocoon and becomes a butterfly, there is always a period of loneliness and anxiety. Only when you make yourself good enough in your time can you be qualified to speak of the pride of being single.  Don't dwell on the past anymore, because all you have is the present and tomorrow.