Some emotions, you don’t have to tell anyone
Many people have encountered such a moment. When you are experiencing unbearable pain and torture, you can't help but want to talk to others, hoping for encouragement and comfort.
But the joys and sorrows between people are not connected.
No one has experienced your things, no one really understands your frustration and ups and downs; no one has experienced your feelings, no one can feel your emotions.
Most of the time, the comfort you want will only be exchanged for a feeble courtesy. The grievance you endure is only a story in the eyes of others.
A writer once said: "Each of us is lonely in the world, so we can only walk alone. Although our bodies are dependent on each other, we are not together. We neither know other people nor be understood by others."
Everyone has unknown coldness and misery, not everyone can feel it in the same way. Even people who are close cannot fully appreciate your suffering and endure it for you.
Life is like drinking water, only you know how warm it is.
In many difficult days, it is better to learn to break away from the darkness by yourself and become a better version of yourself than to talk about your difficulties.
A little poem wrote: Everyone has a blind spot, he can't get out, and others can't get in. I put the deepest secret there. You don't understand me, I don't blame you.
Indeed, everyone is carrying a heavy burden in their own world, and there are very few people worth talking about.
In the face of people who don't understand you, what you say is nothing; in the face of people who don't care about you, what you say is even more wrong.
Therefore, you are less and less wanting to expose your weaknesses, simply let all emotions evolve into silence, and let time heal yourself silently.
The older you are, you will find that you are born lonely, and when you come alone, you are also destined to go alone.
There are bound to be some barriers that require you to break through and fight alone; there are bound to be some loneliness, which you cannot talk to and need to bear alone.
You don't have to tell people who don't understand you about the difficulties of life, and you don't have to tell people about the pain in your heart.
Sometimes, instead of speaking out and making yourself more depressed, it is better to stick to it and make yourself stronger!
In a life of wind and rain, the more tired you are, the more you have to know how to be quiet; the more pain you have, the more you have to learn to heal yourself.
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