When you envy others, they may also envy you

I saw a video recently. A man was driving home at night when he saw a young couple riding an electric bicycle passing by outside the car window. It was very windy at night, and the girl sat on the back seat, hugging the waist of the boy in front. Watching this scene, the man driving the car casually took a photo, and the accompanying text wrote: "I envy this kind of love."

For many young people in their infancy, this is actually just an ordinary scene in ordinary life. It can arouse the envy of others. The reason may only be that the "he" on the electric bicycle has exactly what What the "him" in the car doesn't have.

If you change the angle, in the eyes of this couple, why not envy that man? Owning a favorite car, driving to and from get off work every day, no need to worry about the wind and rain, maybe it is their biggest wish now.

You see, people are sometimes so strange, and we always envy others involuntarily. Envy the success of others, envy the happiness of others, envy all the things that others have, but only forget, in the eyes of others, oneself is also envied.

In this world, everyone is unique, and the story that everyone experiences in their own life is also different.

We can appreciate others, but we can't lose our direction because of this, let alone fall into obsessions and complaints that we can't get. Each has a different path, and not every kind of life is so comparable. If you have to compare, just think about how much persistence and effort others have put in to get happiness.

No one's life can be perfect without regrets, and when one gets it, there is bound to be lost; what kind of life you want to live, you have to bear what kind of price for it-this is the truth of life.

The sparrow always admires the canary's food and clothing. As everyone knows, the canary is also envious of the sparrow's freedom to fly.

Too much envy of others will only make one's heart become unbalanced and become farther and farther away from happiness. What we should do is to cherish the happiness that we have now, and then create more happiness with this gratitude and contentment. It is impossible for people to get everything they want, and to give up some things that are out of reach, in order to firmly grasp the things that really suit them.

Care less, don't force yourself, and be yourself, you are the most unique scenery.