Getting along well, being silent is also warm.



A poet said:

　　"The wind is knotting its leaves,

　　The grass is bearing its seeds,

　　 We stood silently,

　　 is very beautiful. "

This little poem tells the best looks between people: getting along well, being silent is also warm.

If the heart knows each other, speechlessness is also a tacit understanding.

The older I get, the more I feel that it’s better to stay quietly with a confidant than to chat with others.


You guys are in a tacit understanding. You know what the other person is thinking with just one look. You don't need to rack your brains to find topics and think about what to say to make the atmosphere less embarrassing.

A true friend does not demean what you are proud of, does not stop what you really like, and does not attack what you are born with.

Even the occasional silence is just right. You know what I want to say. I know what you mean.

It’s comfortable to get along, but it’s also warm without words.

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