You have to bear it alone

Not long ago, a friend broke up with her boyfriend who had been in love for 3 years on the eve of their wedding. At that moment, she felt that the sky had fallen. She told me: She no longer knows how to eat or sleep alone.


Habit is really a terrible thing. She was used to sitting at the same table with him to eat, feeling his body temperature and falling asleep. After he left, it seemed that the world was empty. However, before you met him, didn't you live well alone?

Sometimes when I want to cry, I find no one to coax me, occasionally I find no one to listen to when I want to talk, and occasionally I find no one to accompany me when I want to travel...Some people praise me for being independent and strong, but he doesn't know the helplessness and loneliness behind this strongness.

But when you have survived all the hardships by yourself, you will find that no amount of hardships in the future is nothing. When I look back, those rough valleys that you thought you couldn't overcome, and those painful tears that you thought you couldn't survive, are all past.

Friends will have their own lives after all, parents will get old and leave. No one will stay with you forever, and the only one who will never leave you is the brave and strong self.

Everyone needs a lifetime company, but after all, they have to learn to bear it alone.

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