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Learn to let go

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Once upon a time, an old monk took a young monk down the mountain to alms. On the way, they met a river and saw a young woman wandering along the river. The water was not deep and there was no ferry. The young woman wanted to wade across, but she did not dare. When the old monk saw it, he stepped forward and said, female donor, let me carry you across the river. After saying that, she took the woman on her back and waded across the river, then put the woman down, and continued on the road with the little monk. The little monk saw it in his eyes, worried in his heart, and muttered along the way, what happened to Master today? He taught us men and women not to get close to each other without getting married. Today we crossed the river with a woman we don’t know. Isn’t this a violation of the rules? The little monk walked all the way, muttering all the way, and couldn't help but tell the master, Master, you broke the precept today, why did you cross the river with a woman on your back...
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You have to bear it alone

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Not long ago, a friend broke up with her boyfriend who had been in love for 3 years on the eve of their wedding. At that moment, she felt that the sky had fallen. She told me: She no longer knows how to eat or sleep alone. Habit is really a terrible thing. She was used to sitting at the same table with him to eat, feeling his body temperature and falling asleep. After he left, it seemed that the world was empty. However, before you met him, didn't you live well alone? Sometimes when I want to cry, I find no one to coax me, occasionally I find no one to listen to when I want to talk, and occasionally I find no one to accompany me when I want to travel...Some people praise me for being independent and strong, but he doesn't know the helplessness and loneliness behind this strongness. But when you have survived all the hardships by yourself, you will find that no amount of hardships in the future is nothing. When I look back, those rough valleys that you thought you couldn't o...
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Busyness is also a kind of cure

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Some people are trapped in the sadness of broken love because they are too idle, and they can't extricate themselves for a long time. Some people, because they are too leisurely, think all day, and often worry about trivial things, and make the family go crazy. Immerse yourself in proper busyness, and you will gradually forget about unprovoked worries, gain inner peace, and be free from sadness and worries. Only if you have been busy can you enjoy the joy of leisure, just like you can only understand the sweetness of spring water if you are thirsty. If you only seek leisure in everything, life will be less splendid and more boring. I hope you can cherish the value of life, try to keep yourself busy and live up to every stage of your life.
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Be kind to those who understand you

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I don’t know if you have ever had such an experience. You have encountered some happy things in your life. You can’t help sharing it with people around you, but find that few people are really happy because of your happiness. Therefore, your mood should be shared with those who understand you. People who know you can understand all the hardships in your life and understand your difficulties. He will listen to your sharing patiently, happy what you like, and worry about what you worry about. I heard a passage saying: "Life is so short, why should people who don't care about you affect your mood? Sincerity is so precious, why let people who don't know how to cherish consume your feelings." Sometimes, the reason why we are stuck in a relationship and refuse to let go is because we are waiting for a reason to let ourselves completely give up, waiting for the disappointment in our heart to accumulate little by little, and finally turn into despair. A writer once said: No m...
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Try to change

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I used to think that my ordinary life stems from the pressure of survival, from this impetuous society that cannot give people a sense of stability, so I forgave myself for being inactive and forgiving myself for repeating my daily life. No one can awaken our dreams of life, but we can only try to change ourselves. Try to make a cup of hand-ground coffee, play some music, read a good book, and enjoy a peaceful and beautiful time in the weekend afternoon. Try to plan a small holiday trip-go to the beach to bask in the sun and blow the sea breeze. The dream life is always ahead. What we need is to keep discovering ourselves and let ourselves see bit by bit changes. This is the way to approach our dreams.
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Don't have trouble with yourself

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A scientist once did an experiment, looking for investigators of different ages, asking them to write down the things that are most worried about now, and then follow up the investigation three weeks later. It turned out that 90% of the troubles did not happen at all. After three more weeks, most of the remaining 10% disappeared. This survey proves that most of the worrying things in life never actually happened. Many troubles are actually self-inflicted. During the journey of life, you must learn to let go, naturally, there will be a lot less troubles. If you feel that God is unfair to you, learn to be content. People nowadays live in a world full of material desires, and their worries and depressions are deepening, and desires and unwillingness to be entangled at all times. Because their hearts are dissatisfied, can't let go, want too much, and never know enough, they often feel too tired to live, and there is nowhere to put a heart. You should be thankful that in this life you a...
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Four things you should always stick to

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First, have an independent personality. It is necessary to have the ability to settle down no matter what kind of difficulties you are in. It gives you the ability to clean up the mess. It also ensures that you don't have to lose your dignity due to difficulties when your relationship collapses, so that your body and mind can have a place to live. Your happiness, after all, has to depend on your own to come at ease. Second, maintain self-discipline. Not everyone is willing to explore your heart through your sloppy appearance. Behind all the beauty and exquisiteness you see, there is strict self-discipline. From today on, less indulgence, more self-discipline: go to bed early and get up early, control your diet, exercise regularly, and maintain a clean and generous image. The beginning of aging is not at a certain age, but no longer fighting with fate. Third, maintain emotional stability. In life, everyone will have unsatisfactory moments. Days are good or bad, so you might as well ...
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